Marlin;
My son has gone through this and I got no satisfaction dealing with the school officials. This only made things worse for my son. I finally got fed up with what was going on and told my son that the next time this happens, (name calling, pushing, throw his lunch on the ground, etc.) to open up and knock the sh_t out of the "leader". Well it happened and my wife and I were called to the school. Each childs record stood for its own merits. My son was a good student who did not get in trouble, and the other was in a group of boys who were continuously in trouble. So, my son had to write a report to the principal on how to handle tough situations without violence and the other boy was suspended. My son has no problems in school since that day. I hear what the others are saying in their posts, but I still believe the bottom line is he will have to stand up for himself. If that means knocking the sh_t out of them, so beit. I will bet that these boys harrassing your son have a reputation as such within the school. So, your sons story, backed by you and other student witnesses will show your son was defending himself. The standing orders with my son today are that he is not to fight unless absolutely neccessary. I have also instructed him to not allow others to intimidate him. This is the method I used when I was in highschool and older classmen would intimidate and threaten me and my friends. You know, the push followed by " I otta kick your as_". I would say something like well I am sure you can kick my as_, but I am gonna break your nose first thing. Usually, following this I suddenly wasn't worth their effort. So they would say something profoundly stupid and walk off with their buddies. I hope this might help, and that your son holds his head high.
Lew
My son has gone through this and I got no satisfaction dealing with the school officials. This only made things worse for my son. I finally got fed up with what was going on and told my son that the next time this happens, (name calling, pushing, throw his lunch on the ground, etc.) to open up and knock the sh_t out of the "leader". Well it happened and my wife and I were called to the school. Each childs record stood for its own merits. My son was a good student who did not get in trouble, and the other was in a group of boys who were continuously in trouble. So, my son had to write a report to the principal on how to handle tough situations without violence and the other boy was suspended. My son has no problems in school since that day. I hear what the others are saying in their posts, but I still believe the bottom line is he will have to stand up for himself. If that means knocking the sh_t out of them, so beit. I will bet that these boys harrassing your son have a reputation as such within the school. So, your sons story, backed by you and other student witnesses will show your son was defending himself. The standing orders with my son today are that he is not to fight unless absolutely neccessary. I have also instructed him to not allow others to intimidate him. This is the method I used when I was in highschool and older classmen would intimidate and threaten me and my friends. You know, the push followed by " I otta kick your as_". I would say something like well I am sure you can kick my as_, but I am gonna break your nose first thing. Usually, following this I suddenly wasn't worth their effort. So they would say something profoundly stupid and walk off with their buddies. I hope this might help, and that your son holds his head high.
Lew